LGBTQIA+ · Rant

The “Lesbian” dating scene in Lagos

If you are a lesbian or a woman that loves other women and you live in Lagos, then you know how chaotic the dating scene could be. After navigating the toxic masculinity (side-eyeing a lot of you studs), emotional and physical abuse, you now have to confront the fact that every woman you will ever… Continue reading The “Lesbian” dating scene in Lagos

Rant

Not Everything Is A Competition!

When I was in primary two (I think, memory is weird), I was in Sapphire house, and I was the Sapphire house march past Queen. My mum got me this beautiful blue dress with silver sparkles and silver shoes. I got my hair done and had this beautiful blue fan with feathers. Safe to say,… Continue reading Not Everything Is A Competition!

Rant · Sexual Assault

Let’s talk about sex… ual assault baby.

It's sexual assault awareness month, so here I am to raise some awareness. Context Warning: Sexual Assault Sexual assault is an act in which a person intentionally sexually touches another person without that person's consent, or coerces or physically forces a person to engage in a sexual act against their will. It is a form of sexual violence. There's a group chat… Continue reading Let’s talk about sex… ual assault baby.